is that you? - Sunday, October 02, 2005
everyone has their own problems like family, relationship, money issue, work, studies...etc
lets talk abt relationship...whats the 3 most important key for a strong & healthy r/s?
for me: trust, commitment & communication is a must. if not its hard to maintain it.
trust: to trust someone it take times & courage to really do it...and its a key to many successful r/s. once trust is broken, it takes even a longer time for you to heal & to bring yrself up to face the reality...
commitment: if you dun commit into a r/s, its like the person gives & u kept taking and not giving back in return. its a very selfish act...for those who cant commit for some reason, try to think of another way to solve the problem and make life easier for both. nothing can beat two person that are really in love, liking towards each other & chemistry!!!
communication: its another important key as well, its not just normal communication but you have to understand their needs, ones & problems...do you have quiet times with yr love ones? asking deeper question, trying to know more...take some time out and try, you will tend to listen amazing thing from he/she. always let he/she do the talking first and LISTEN...listening is very important...ask the right ques rather then lame & out of the point ques.
after crapping for so long, i hope those who read will try to understand what i had said...
today i'm suppose to go to church but i din cuz sharyn overslpt even i gave her 2 morning calls...sigh! stop slping so much la...reach her flat and we headed down to northbridge for dim sum but its like so jammed packed. we're so sick of waiting then we just turn to the vietnamese resturtant next door...ate lotsa again, still have to eat part of her share cuz she always cant finish her food...haha! brunch was good it lasted me the whole afternoon and we had gelare ice cream for tea time. my fav strawberry ice cream!!! yummy...window shopping ard the city...nothing much to buy also...but in fact is that no $$$ la...hahaha!
rice paper wrapped with pork & prawn
egg noodles with braised duck - mine
pork & prawn rice noodles - sharyn's
going now, i got to do my part...helping out with the gals with some cooking...claypot rice wor! wonder what will it turn out to be? hehehe! =P
lets talk abt relationship...whats the 3 most important key for a strong & healthy r/s?
for me: trust, commitment & communication is a must. if not its hard to maintain it.
trust: to trust someone it take times & courage to really do it...and its a key to many successful r/s. once trust is broken, it takes even a longer time for you to heal & to bring yrself up to face the reality...
commitment: if you dun commit into a r/s, its like the person gives & u kept taking and not giving back in return. its a very selfish act...for those who cant commit for some reason, try to think of another way to solve the problem and make life easier for both. nothing can beat two person that are really in love, liking towards each other & chemistry!!!
communication: its another important key as well, its not just normal communication but you have to understand their needs, ones & problems...do you have quiet times with yr love ones? asking deeper question, trying to know more...take some time out and try, you will tend to listen amazing thing from he/she. always let he/she do the talking first and LISTEN...listening is very important...ask the right ques rather then lame & out of the point ques.
after crapping for so long, i hope those who read will try to understand what i had said...
today i'm suppose to go to church but i din cuz sharyn overslpt even i gave her 2 morning calls...sigh! stop slping so much la...reach her flat and we headed down to northbridge for dim sum but its like so jammed packed. we're so sick of waiting then we just turn to the vietnamese resturtant next door...ate lotsa again, still have to eat part of her share cuz she always cant finish her food...haha! brunch was good it lasted me the whole afternoon and we had gelare ice cream for tea time. my fav strawberry ice cream!!! yummy...window shopping ard the city...nothing much to buy also...but in fact is that no $$$ la...hahaha!
rice paper wrapped with pork & prawn
egg noodles with braised duck - mine
pork & prawn rice noodles - sharyn's
going now, i got to do my part...helping out with the gals with some cooking...claypot rice wor! wonder what will it turn out to be? hehehe! =P
moo'd @ 8:33 PM
